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2/26/26

Biblical Foundations for Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

I had the honor of hosting a meeting with Paul Abney at my work for SALT, STRIVE, VETNET. He shared his story of trauma, recovery and advocacy for people to move from suffering to true healing. This morning my friend shared Trauma, Addiction and Recovery: Concurrent Treatment of PTSD and Addiction which got me thinking about CBT and the Bible. 

CBT says our thoughts shape our emotions and behaviors. Scripture taught this long before modern psychology. The Bible presents a coherent model of the mind that mirrors CBT’s cognitive-behavioral architecture.

1. Change begins with the mind
Paul frames transformation as cognitive renewal.
Romans 12:2 — “Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
Philippians 4:8 — Directing attention toward what is true.
Colossians 3:2 — “Set your minds on things above.”
This is cognitive restructuring in biblical language.

2. Identify and challenge distorted thoughts
CBT teaches monitoring and reframing automatic thoughts.
2 Corinthians 10:5 — “Take captive every thought.”
This is an active evaluation of internal narratives, not passive acceptance.
Applied to trauma: Scripture confronts harmful core beliefs (“I am damaged,” “I am unsafe”) rather than baptizing them.

3. Thought → emotion → behavior
Scripture treats the “heart” as the integrated center of thought, feeling, and action.
Proverbs 23:7 — “As he thinks… so is he.”
Proverbs 4:23 — “Guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”
Matthew 15:18-19 — Behavior originates in the inner thought-life.
This is the cognitive model stated plainly.

4. Action reinforces belief
CBT uses behavioral activation. Scripture does the same.
James 1:22 — “Do what it says.”
1 Timothy 4:7-8 — Spiritual maturity is trained, not felt.
Behavioral practice reshapes the inner life.

5. Exposure over avoidance
CBT teaches that avoidance feeds fear; courage rewires it.
2 Timothy 1:7 — A “sound mind” in fear-based situations.
Psalm 23:4 — Healing comes by walking through the valley, not around it.
This parallels trauma-focused exposure therapy.

6. Rumination and anxiety
Scripture addresses anticipatory fear and catastrophic thinking.
Matthew 6:34 — “Do not worry about tomorrow.”
Philippians 4:6-7 — Petition + thanksgiving produces cognitive peace.
1 Peter 5:6-7 — Anxiety is “cast” — a deliberate cognitive release.
This aligns with mindfulness-based CBT.

7. Identity reconstruction
CBT reshapes core beliefs. Scripture does too.
2 Corinthians 5:17 — A new identity redefines self-schema.
Ephesians 4:22-24 — Put off → renew the mind → put on.
A full cognitive-behavioral sequence is embedded here.

8. Community as change catalyst
CBT uses group reality-checking and accountability.
James 5:16 — Confession externalizes distorted beliefs.
Proverbs 27:17 — Others help correct our thinking.
Scripture embeds change in relational systems, not isolation.

Synthesis
Scripture and CBT converge on three truths:
• Thought is the driver of emotional and behavioral life (John 8:32).
• Truth dismantles distortion and brings freedom.
• Lasting change requires both renewed cognition and practiced obedience.

For clinicians or pastors working with believers, this alignment is not cosmetic. It gives CBT a deeper moral and theological backbone and offers clients meaning, hope, and a worldview that reinforces clinical progress.

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2/15/26

Profound tranquility when we accept Peace that Jesus gives

We finished watching 11.22.63 series about going back in time and trying to change things. I saw the link to PTSD where people spend their life in the past, but it never changes. I thought about Paul Abney's testimony at my work with SALT, VETNET and STRIVE a week from Tuesday and his healing ministry; Redeeming Your Timeline by Troy Brewer

Chloe had a great insight, depression occurs when we're in the past, anxiety occurs when we're in the future and peace occurs when we're in the present. When we view our lives through God's purpose, power and plan we see He can redeem the past, and give hope for the future. 

The world sees hope as wishful thinking, but the Bible defines hope as the joyful expectation of something good. In There Is Hope For What You Are Facing - Bill Johnson talks about the idea that faithful Christians don't deny trouble (pain, trouble or bad circumstances) but they deny it place of influence over their lives. When we put God first we are able to walk in step with him and experience that the "Word is Light onto my path." Even in a fight of our lives we can be present with the Lord and for the Joy set before us endure the hardest moments with a heart full of love and forgiveness (Hebrews 12:1-13:25)

Now may the God of peace - who brought up from the dead our Lord Jesus, the great Shepherd of the sheep, and ratified an eternal covenant with his blood - may he equip you with all you need for doing his will. May he produce in you, through the power of Jesus Christ, every good thing that is pleasing to him.  All glory to him forever and ever! Amen. Hebrews 13:20-21

Peace is Presence, Not Escape

The world's peace is circumstantial. It exists only when conditions are favorable. God's peace operates differently. It is relational, not situational.

When Jesus says, "My peace I give you; not as the world gives" (John 14:27), He establishes a fundamental distinction. The world's peace is the absence of trouble. Christ's peace is the presence of God in the middle of trouble.

Paul makes this explicit in Ephesians 2:14: "He himself is our peace." Not His gifts or solutions. Not His interventions. He is the peace. This is why believers can experience profound tranquility in circumstances that would shatter anyone else.

The peace isn't found by escaping the storm. It's found by encountering the One who speaks to the storm (Mark 4:39, Psalm 107:29).

Philippians 4:9 promises: "The God of peace will be with you." Notice the emphasis. Not just that peace will come to you, but that the God of peace will be present. His nearness is the source (Psalm 73:28, James 4:8). His companionship is the substance. Peace is not a spiritual commodity we acquire. It's a Person we know.

Practical application: When anxiety rises, our first instinct is to solve the problem or escape the pressure. The biblical response is different. Intentionally acknowledge God's presence. "You are here. You are peace. I receive You." This reorients us from circumstance-management to presence-awareness.

Supporting passages: Psalm 16:11, Isaiah 26:3, Jeremiah 29:11-13, Matthew 28:20, Hebrews 13:5


Keep Your Peace

Peace is already given. The challenge is retention, not acquisition.

Colossians 3:15 uses the imperative: "Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts." The Greek word for "rule" (brabeuō) means to act as an umpire or arbiter. Peace is meant to govern decision-making, emotional responses, and mental patterns. But we must actively allow it to do so.

A noisy heart cannot hear the still, small voice of God (1 Kings 19:12). One dominated by anxiety, reactivity, or distraction cannot sense the gentle arbitration of His peace. Isaiah 30:15 reveals the principle: "In returning and rest you shall be saved; in quietness and trust is your strength." But the verse continues: "Yet you would not."

The peace is available. The stillness is offered. But we must choose it.

Psalm 46:10 is often quoted in isolation: "Be still and know that I am God." But in context, this stillness isn't passive resignation. It's active surrender in the midst of nations raging, kingdoms falling, and earth giving way (Psalm 46:1-3, 6). The command is to stop striving, stop manufacturing solutions in our own strength, and know that He is God and we are not.

Our memory verse in BSF the last few weeks: "Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the Lord of hosts" Zechariah 4:6

Practical application: Throughout the day, perform "peace checks." Is peace still ruling, or has anxiety taken the throne? When you notice you've lost your peace, don't merely try to calm down. Return to the presence of God. The peace you're looking for isn't manufactured by deep breathing. It's recovered by returning to the One who already gave it.

Supporting passages: Proverbs 3:5-6, Isaiah 32:17, John 14:1, Romans 8:6, 2 Thessalonians 3:16


Prayerlessness Creates Lack

The most direct instruction on maintaining peace is Philippians 4:6-7: "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."

The structure is intentional. Anxiety is dispelled through prayer, not independently of it. The peace that guards our hearts is given in response to bringing our concerns to God.

This isn't mechanical or transactional. It's relational. When we withhold our anxieties from God, we forfeit the peace that comes from unburdening ourselves in His presence.

James 4:2 states the principle bluntly: "You do not have because you do not ask." This applies to peace as much as any other spiritual reality. Prayerlessness is a choice to carry burdens we were never meant to bear alone (Matthew 11:28-30).

It's the quiet pride that says, "I can handle this myself." Or the functional atheism that says, "Prayer won't actually change anything." Both positions cut us off from the very source of peace.

My quiet pride of being looked over at work was discovered during a weekend of worship a few weeks ago: Jesus gives new power to walk differently - Mark 2:11

1 Peter 5:7 gives both the command and the reason: "Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you." The act of casting requires deliberate, verbal, specific prayer. Vague spiritual intentions don't displace concrete anxieties. We must name the fear, articulate the burden, and consciously transfer it to the One who invites us to do so (Psalm 55:22).

Practical application: When anxiety surfaces about a specific issue, immediately convert that anxiety into prayer. Don't wait until you "feel like praying" or until the fear intensifies. The moment you notice it, speak it to God. "Father, I'm anxious about _______. I release this to You. I receive Your peace in exchange." This isn't formula. It's relationship.

Supporting passages: Psalm 34:4, Psalm 62:8, Proverbs 16:3, Matthew 6:25-34, Luke 11:9-10, 1 Thessalonians 5:17


Peace Guards What We Guard

The promise of Philippians 4:7 is that God's peace will "guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus." The word "guard" (phrourēsē) is a military term. It means to garrison, to station sentries, to protect by an armed presence.

Peace doesn't just comfort. It actively defends against the intrusion of fear, confusion, and chaos.

But notice the condition in the preceding verse. The promise of guarding peace follows specific instructions about what we bring to God: prayer, supplication, thanksgiving, requests. We cannot experience the guarding function of peace if we don't engage the relational practices that activate it.

This connects directly to Philippians 4:8, which is actually the continuation: "Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things."

The peace that guards our hearts is sustained by what we allow into our minds. Mental passivity erodes the garrison. Consuming whatever the world presents, rehearsing worst-case scenarios, dwelling on offenses destroys peace (Proverbs 4:23).

We must actively curate our thought life. Not through rigid mental control, but through intentional focus on what is true, noble, right, and praiseworthy.

Practical application: Implement "thought triage" throughout the day. When a thought enters your mind, ask: "Is this true? Is this worth my attention? Does this build peace or erode it?" Don't merely try to suppress negative thoughts. Replace them with truth. Memorized Scripture is the best defense here (Psalm 119:11). When anxiety attacks with "what if," counter with "even if" grounded in God's promises.

Supporting passages: 2 Corinthians 10:5, Ephesians 6:14-17, Colossians 3:2, 2 Timothy 1:7, Hebrews 4:12


Peace with God, Peace from God

Romans 5:1 establishes the foundation: "Therefore, since we have been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ." This is positional peace. The settled legal status of being reconciled to God through Christ's atoning work.

It is not experiential peace (how we feel day-to-day) but relational peace (our standing before God). This peace is permanent, not fluctuating (Romans 8:38-39).

Understanding this distinction is critical. When believers struggle with anxiety or internal turmoil, it doesn't mean they've lost their peace with God. The blood of Christ has secured that once for all (Hebrews 10:10, 14).

What's at stake is not our justification but our experience. Whether we're drawing from the peace we already possess in Christ.

Romans 15:13 speaks to experiential peace: "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope." Notice the mechanism. Joy and peace come in believing. In actively trusting God's character, promises, and purposes.

This peace is not automatic. It's accessed through faith and sustained by the Holy Spirit's power (Galatians 5:22, John 14:26-27). Peace is both a gift and a fruit. You can't manufacture fruit. You can only create the conditions for it to grow (John 15:4-5).

Practical application: When you lose your experiential peace, don't question your salvation. Question your believing. What truth are you not trusting? What promise are you not applying? What aspect of God's character are you not leaning on? Return to specific biblical promises and deliberately choose to believe them again.

Supporting passages: Isaiah 53:5, John 16:33, Acts 10:36, Romans 8:1, Ephesians 2:13-18, Colossians 1:20


The Peace That Passes Understanding

Philippians 4:7 describes God's peace as "surpassing all understanding" (hyperechousan panta noun). This isn't peace that makes rational sense given the circumstances. It's peace that operates on a different plane entirely. It transcends human logic, psychological explanation, or circumstantial justification.

This is the peace Jesus demonstrated sleeping in the stern of a boat during a life-threatening storm (Mark 4:38). His disciples panicked because their peace was tied to circumstances. Jesus rested because His peace was tied to the Father.

When He woke and calmed the storm, He didn't rebuke the weather first. He rebuked the disciples' lack of faith (Mark 4:40). The issue wasn't the storm. It was their failure to recognize that the presence of God in the boat made them perfectly safe regardless of the waves.

John 16:33 captures this paradox: "I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world." Jesus doesn't promise the absence of tribulation. He promises peace in the midst of tribulation.

The peace isn't found by avoiding the world's troubles. It's found by abiding in Christ who has already conquered them (1 John 5:4).

This is supernatural peace. The peace of martyrs singing hymns before execution (Acts 16:25). The peace of missionaries sleeping soundly in dangerous places (Acts 27:21-25). The peace of parents whose child is in crisis but who rest in God's sovereignty (2 Samuel 12:22-23).

The world looks at such peace and considers it denial or delusion. But it's neither. It's simply trusting Someone the world doesn't know.

Practical application: When circumstances logically dictate fear or anxiety, that's precisely when supernatural peace can shine most clearly. Don't apologize for your peace or feel guilty for not being as worried as others think you should be. Your peace isn't denial. It's faith. It's trusting in a reality the world can't see.

Supporting passages: Psalm 4:8, Psalm 112:7, Proverbs 1:33, Isaiah 41:10, Nahum 1:7, Romans 8:31


Peacemakers, Not Peacekeepers

Matthew 5:9 pronounces blessing on "the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God." This isn't passive peacekeeping. Not avoiding conflict, suppressing truth to maintain surface harmony, or enabling dysfunction in the name of "keeping the peace."

Biblical peacemaking requires courage, truth-telling, and sometimes confrontation (Matthew 18:15-17, Galatians 2:11).

Hebrews 12:14 commands, "Strive for peace with everyone, and for the holiness without which no one will see the Lord." Notice peace is paired with holiness, not with tolerance of sin. True peace doesn't compromise righteousness (James 3:17-18). It pursues reconciliation through righteousness.

Romans 12:18 acknowledges the limitation: "If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all." The qualifiers matter. "If possible" recognizes that some people refuse peace. "So far as it depends on you" acknowledges that you can't control others' responses.

You're responsible for your own pursuit of peace, not for achieving it unilaterally.

Jesus Himself said, "Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I have not come to bring peace, but a sword" (Matthew 10:34). In context, He's describing the division that occurs when truth confronts darkness. When allegiance to Christ supersedes human relationships (Luke 12:51-53).

There's a false peace that simply avoids confronting evil. That's not the peace Christ offers.

Practical application: When relational conflict arises, ask: "Am I pursuing peace or merely avoiding conflict?" True peacemaking addresses issues directly, speaks truth in love (Ephesians 4:15), and seeks reconciliation grounded in righteousness. Don't sacrifice truth for comfort, but don't wield truth as a weapon either. Be a peacemaker, not a peacekeeper.

Supporting passages: Proverbs 12:20, Mark 9:50, Romans 14:19, 2 Corinthians 13:11, 1 Thessalonians 5:13, 2 Timothy 2:22-24


The Prince of Peace and the God of Peace (covenant not temperament)

Isaiah 9:6 prophesies the Messiah as "Prince of Peace," yet His arrival triggered Herod's massacre of innocents (Matthew 2:16). His ministry provoked constant controversy. How is this "peace"?

Because the peace He brings isn't merely international harmony or political stability. It's reconciliation between God and humanity, the foundation of all true peace.

The peace Christ secured through the cross is described in Ephesians 2:14-16: "For he himself is our peace, who has made us both one and has broken down in his flesh the dividing wall of hostility... that he might create in himself one new man in place of the two, so making peace, and might reconcile us both to God in one body through the cross, thereby killing the hostility."

This cosmic peace was purchased with blood (Colossians 1:20). Peace isn't cheap. It required the wrath of God being fully satisfied at Calvary (Isaiah 53:5, 10). The just punishment for sin was completely executed on Christ. The righteousness of God was perfectly maintained while extending mercy to the undeserving (Romans 3:25-26).

This is why believers can confidently approach "the throne of grace" (Hebrews 4:16). Not because we're worthy, but because Christ has made peace. The God who is "the God of peace" (Romans 15:33, 16:20, Philippians 4:9, 1 Thessalonians 5:23, Hebrews 13:20) isn't peaceful by temperament but by covenant.

  • His wrath against sin has been satisfied in Christ (1 John 2:2, 4:10).

Practical application: When you feel distant from God or unworthy of His presence, remember that your access isn't based on your performance but on Christ's finished work. The peace that allows you into the Father's presence was bought at the cross. Come boldly. He is the God of peace, and He has made peace with you through His Son.

Supporting passages: Micah 5:5, Luke 2:14, John 20:19-21, Acts 10:36, Romans 10:15, Ephesians 6:15


Conclusion: Living as People of Peace

Peace is not a spiritual luxury for mature believers. It's a core marker of kingdom citizenship.

Jesus repeatedly greeted His disciples with "Peace be with you" (Luke 24:36, John 20:19, 21, 26). Paul begins and ends nearly every epistle with benedictions of peace (Romans 1:7, 1 Corinthians 1:3, 2 Corinthians 1:2). The early church sent messengers with greetings of peace.

This wasn't religious formality. It was theological substance.

To live as people of peace means:

  • Anchoring in the presence of God, not the absence of problems.
  • Actively guarding our peace through prayer, truth, and intentional thought patterns.
  • Drawing from our positional peace when experiential peace feels distant.
  • Trusting beyond understanding when circumstances defy logic.
  • Pursuing true reconciliation, not superficial harmony.
  • Resting in Christ's finished work, which has secured our eternal peace.

Why this matters:

The world is watching to see where believers find their stability. Do we panic like everyone else, or do we demonstrate a peace that doesn't make natural sense?

Our peace is apologetic. It points to a reality the world can't see but desperately needs (1 Peter 3:15).

May the Lord of peace Himself give you peace at all times in every way (2 Thessalonians 3:16).

Final supporting passages: Numbers 6:24-26, Psalm 29:11, Isaiah 54:10, Haggai 2:9, Zechariah 8:12, John 14:27, Philippians 1:2

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12/6/25

From guilt and shame to back in the game (everyday)

The LORD's lovingkindnesses, great, faithful love, acts of mercy indeed never cease, never ends For His compassions never fail, are never limited, still continue, never end. These mercies are new every morning, fresh as the morning sunrise; great beyond measure, abundant is thy/Your faithfulness. Lamentations 3:22-23

(Everyday in view of God's mercy Romans 12) ...seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added unto you. / Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Today has enough trouble of its own. Matthew 6:33-34

I’m deeply honored when friends trust me with their real struggles: pornography, deception, addiction, and the shame that follows. Whether the battle is with substances, food, money, avoidance, or hidden sin, we always begin with Jesus. We thank God that He will not let us remain comfortable with sin, then we confess, receive His forgiveness, and stand on His promises. Clothed in the full armor of God, we stand ready to fight.

This is life on this side of heaven, the church militant standing faithfully with the church triumphant.

I had several of these conversation this week and wanted to capture a few new books that were brought to my attention. The Genesis Process: A Relapse Prevention Wookbook for Addictive/Compulsive Behaviors  and The Purple Book, Updated Edition: Biblical Foundations for Building Strong Disciples

The Genesis Process is out of print so I asked chatGPT this: Tell me about this book, what's different about it from other treatment methods like Serenity Principle or 12 steps based approaches: The Genesis Process: A Relapse Prevention Wookbook for Addictive/Compulsive Behaviors.

Here’s how The Genesis Process: A Relapse Prevention Workbook for Addictive/Compulsive Behaviors differs — in concept and orientation — from more traditional approaches like “the The Serenity Principle” or classic 12-step models (e.g. in Alcoholics Anonymous / Narcotics Anonymous).


✅ What Genesis claims to be

  • Root-cause healing (beliefs, identity, trauma), not just behavior control. According to its authors and program materials, Genesis works on identifying “subconscious self-sabotaging patterns,” faulty belief systems and emotional/spiritual wounds (often from trauma or neglect) that underlie compulsive or addictive behavior — not just treating the addiction itself. genesisprocess.org+2RescueMissionCurriculum.org+2

  • Integration of multiple disciplines: It blends biblical principles, neurochemical research, and cognitive-therapy style relapse prevention. RescueMissionCurriculum.org+2genesisprocess.org+2

  • Personalized relapse prevention plan + ongoing support: Participants work one-on-one with a trained counselor, and also can go through a 6-month small-group “Change Group” experience to build safe relationships, and heal underlying “heart issues.” genesisprocess.org+2RescueMissionCurriculum.org+2

  • Focus on identity transformation rather than abstinence rituals: The program emphasizes “if someone is willing to change, Genesis will make them able.” It posits that lasting recovery comes from changing “who you are” (identity, beliefs, self-concept), not just “what you do (or don’t do).” genesisprocess.org+2CLDI Billings+2


⚠️ How that contrasts with 12-step / Serenity Principle–style models

Feature / GoalTraditional 12-Step / Serenity PrincipleGenesis Process
Core focusManaging behavior, establishing abstinence, building a new routine; often centered around admitting powerlessness over addiction and relying on a higher power. The Lakes Addiction Treatment Center+1Healing the underlying beliefs, identity, and emotional/spiritual wounds that drive addictive behavior. genesisprocess.org+1
Spiritual / religious elementSpirituality or higher-power orientation is central (though interpreted variously by individuals). Wikipedia+1Also faith-based (biblical worldview) — but paired explicitly with modern neurochemical + cognitive-therapy ideas. RescueMissionCurriculum.org+1
MethodologyStep-by-step recovery, group meetings, sponsorship, peer support. The Lakes Addiction Treatment Center+1One-on-one counseling, personalized relapse-prevention planning, and small-group therapy focused on self-discovery and healing underlying issues. genesisprocess.org+1
Goal orientationMaintain abstinence, stay sober, manage relapse risk; often external behavior change with support of community.Internal transformation — reshape beliefs, identity, emotional core so that addictive behaviors no longer “make sense.”

In short: 12-step / Serenity-style methods emphasize behavioral change, peer accountability, and spiritual surrender, often relying on community and a “higher power” to maintain sobriety.

By contrast, Genesis aims for therapeutic healing, psychological and spiritual re-wiring, with structured counseling + self-discovery exercises, combining faith and modern behavioral science — oriented toward transforming why someone is drawn to destructive patterns.


🎯 What Genesis might offer that traditional models sometimes don’t

  • Deeper psychological introspection — Genesis invites a person to examine their life history, belief systems, identity, and inner wounds. For many, addiction isn’t just a habit but a symptom of deeper emotional or spiritual trauma; Genesis attempts to address that root.

  • Personalization of recovery — Rather than a “one-size-fits-all” set of steps, Genesis builds individualized relapse-prevention plans and therapeutic support tailored to an individual’s triggers and history.

  • Blended faith + science approach — For someone wanting spiritual grounding and a structured understanding of neurobehavioral factors, Genesis offers both.

  • Longer-term change framework — Through small groups and on-going counsel, it aims to change identity and belief structures to support sustainable recovery, not just abstinence.


💡 Some caveats and considerations

  • Because Genesis explicitly combines faith (biblical worldview) with therapy and neuro-behavioral ideas, it may resonate more with people open to a Christian context. For those seeking purely secular recovery, 12-step or non-faith-based clinical relapse prevention might feel more appropriate.

  • As with many non-mainstream recovery modalities, empirical evidence (in peer-reviewed research) for “transformation via belief-system change + neurochemistry + biblical worldview” tends to be less established than for more studied cognitive-behavioral relapse prevention models. (Mainstream relapse prevention adopts recognized behavioral/cognitive therapy principles.) Wikipedia+1

  • Effectiveness may heavily depend on the quality of counseling, individual commitment, and community support — same as with 12-step programs.

I then asked: How does the ideas from The Purple Book, Updated Edition: Biblical Foundations for Building Strong Disciples add to ideas previously mentioned. Because at the end of the day, everyone is born into Adam's sin nature and we need to apply the new Adam's nature, in effect - be born again and put on the new self and take off the old self. Adjusting my heart and mind to the yoke until by the grace of God "his yoke is easy, his burden is light."

You’re drawing a theologically precise line that The Purple Book strengthens and stabilizes what Genesis-style heart work and recovery models begin. Here’s how it adds depth, order, and sustainability to the transformation you described — moving from Adam’s nature to Christ’s nature, and learning to live under the easy yoke.


1. Genesis Works on the Root System

The Purple Book Builds the Framework for Growth

Genesis Process (and similar inner-healing models):

  • Exposes why the old self still rules (trauma, lies, identity wounds, coping patterns).

  • Helps people see the old nature in operation.

  • Creates repentance at the heart level, not just behavior.

The Purple Book then adds what many recovery models lack:

  • A systematic discipleship architecture that teaches:

    • Who God is

    • Who we are in Christ

    • How the Kingdom actually works

  • It moves a person from:

    “I’ve been healed” → “Now I must be formed.”

In essence:

  • Genesis digs out the dead roots.

  • The Purple Book plants the new roots of doctrine, practice, and identity.


2. From Diagnosis → Doctrine → Discipline

Genesis excels at diagnosing Adam’s nature in real life:

  • Fear

  • Control

  • Shame

  • Compulsion

  • Self-protection

The Purple Book explains why those traits exist theologically:

  • Federal headship in Adam (Rom 5)

  • Separation from God

  • Slavery to sin, not just sinful acts

And then it gives the disciplines that train the new nature:

  • Repentance as a lifestyle, not an event

  • Faith as active alignment, not intellectual assent

  • Lordship, submission, authority, community, mission

So the flow becomes:

Revelation → Transformation → Formation → Multiplication

Without Purple Book–style foundations, many people:

  • Get emotionally free

  • But remain doctrinally shallow

  • And eventually drift back into self-rule.


3. Adam vs. Christ: Purple Book Makes This Daily and Practical

You summarized the gospel transformation exactly:

Born into Adam’s nature → Born again into Christ’s nature → Put off the old → Put on the new.

Where Genesis often asks:

  • “What wounded your heart?”

  • “What belief lies are driving your behavior?”

The Purple Book adds:

  • “What has God already declared true about you?”

  • “What Kingdom laws now govern your life?”

  • “What does obedience look like in normal rhythms?”

It turns identity theology into daily practice:

  • Not just freedom from sin

  • But training in righteousness

This is why Jesus’ yoke becomes easy:

  • You stop pulling as Adam

  • You move as a son in Christ

  • By rhythms of grace, not pressure


4. The Yoke: From Inner Healing to Kingdom Alignment

Many recovery and healing movements aim at:

“Less pain, fewer relapses, more emotional health.”

The Purple Book aims at:

“Life fully submitted to the King under His authority.”

This is a critical shift:

Inner-Healing FocusPurple Book Focus
Personal freedomKingdom citizenship
Emotional healthSpiritual authority
Identity repairSonship alignment
CopingObedience
ReliefTransformation

So the yoke becomes:

  • Not a therapeutic tool

  • But a relational covenant

  • Where obedience flows from love, not effort

This makes your phrase theologically complete:

Adjusting my heart and mind to the yoke
is not self-regulation — it is Spirit-led conformity to Christ.


5. Where Genesis, 12-Step, and Purple Book Converge — and Where Purple Book Goes Further

All three acknowledge:

  • Human powerlessness over sin

  • The need for repentance

  • The necessity of grace

  • The danger of self-rule

But Purple Book uniquely emphasizes:

  • Apostolic doctrine

  • Authority structures

  • Spiritual warfare and discipleship

  • Multiplication, not just recovery

It shifts the ultimate goal from:

“I don’t relapse anymore”
to
“I am walking as a disciple who makes disciples.”

That is a Kingdom upgrade.


6. The Coherent Arc You’re Describing

What you’re really outlining is a complete spiritual operating system:

  1. Adam’s inheritance → sin nature, broken identity

  2. Conviction & repentance → Genesis/inner healing

  3. Regeneration → born again into Christ

  4. Re-education of the soul → The Purple Book

  5. Training under the yoke → daily discipleship

  6. Spirit-empowered obedience → easy yoke, light burden

  7. Multiplication → spiritual reproduction, not just survival

This is not recovery theology alone.
It is Kingdom formation theology.


7. Why This Integration Is So Spiritually Powerful

Because it:

  • Avoids shallow “behavior modification Christianity”

  • Avoids purely emotional healing without discipline

  • Avoids legalism without denying obedience

  • Avoids grace without transformation

It fully honors:

  • Justification (new birth)

  • Sanctification (putting on the new self daily)

  • Commission (living under the yoke for others)


Bottom Line

Genesis helps you see and repent of the old Adam.
The Purple Book teaches you how to live as the new Adam in Christ.
The yoke is where healing becomes obedience, and obedience becomes joy.

God shines through our weakness. 2 Corinthians 12:9, where the Apostle Paul writes, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness. Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me" God molds us and re-molds us until he see repentance (Jer 18:1-17)



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11/14/25

Redeeming Your Timeline by Troy Brewer

I had a great conversation with Paul, a friend who was on the USS Cole that was bombed before 911, 2001. He's involved in a healing ministry that reminds me of Redeeming your timeline by Troy Brewer that I first heard about from a SALT friend at work in 2022: God redeems our past and we can see our future with him (Job 19:25-27) Today I have serval friends going through late stage cancer and others suffering from anxiety over past truma. I thought I post some of the key ideas and scripture to encourage these friends and hope others find encouragement as well. 

Troy Brewer’s central premise: God is not bound by time.

Because He stands outside past, present, and future, He can redeem all three — healing yesterday, securing tomorrow, and giving rest today.

This book addresses the deep human need for peace, identity, and hope by showing how God interacts with our personal timelines.

God redeems your timeline by healing past wounds, stabilizing the present with peace, and guiding the future with purpose.

Brewer’s message is that nothing in your past disqualifies you, nothing in your future can intimidate you, and nothing in your present has to overwhelm you — because Jesus rules your entire timeline.

God’s View of Time: He Is Eternal, We Are Not

Big idea: Time is a created dimension. God moves through it freely and can rewrite what sin, trauma, or fear broke.

Key Scriptures

  • Isaiah 46:10 — “I make known the end from the beginning.”
  • Psalm 139:16 — All our days were written before one came to be.
  • 2 Peter 3:8 — With the Lord, one day is like a thousand years.

Insight: We often act like our timeline is fixed. God sees it as flexible, healable, and redeemable.

Redeeming the Past: Healing Memories and Wounds

Big idea: God can reach into the past, heal what happened, and break the power of damaging moments that shaped unhealthy patterns.

Key Scriptures

  • Joel 2:25 — “I will restore the years the locusts have eaten.”
  • Psalm 147:3 — He heals the brokenhearted and binds wounds.
  • Colossians 1:20 — Through Christ, God reconciles all things. 

People carry old scripts — identity wounds, shame stories, losses. Brewer teaches replacing those memories with God’s truth and letting Christ heal the emotional residue.

Redeeming the Present: Calming the Chaos of “Right Now”

Big idea: Trust transforms the present. The Holy Spirit produces peace, presence, and strategic clarity when we surrender control.

Key Scriptures

  • Matthew 6:34 — Don’t worry about tomorrow.
  • Philippians 4:6–7 — Peace guards our hearts and minds.
  • Psalm 23 — God leads, restores, and protects moment by moment.

Insight: Anxiety comes from living either in the past or the future. God invites us into a redeemed present anchored in Him.

Redeeming the Future: Breaking Off Fear of Tomorrow

Big idea: God already occupies your future. Therefore fear has no authority over it. Brewer emphasizes prophetic identity and future hope.

Key Scriptures

  • Jeremiah 29:11 — Plans to prosper and not harm.
  • Romans 8:28 — God works all things for good.
  • Proverbs 3:5–6 — Trust Him and He makes your paths straight. 

People fear uncertainty. God’s kingdom reframes the future as safe, guided, and purposed.

Supernatural Skillsets Brewer Teaches

  • Timeline Redeeming Prayer
    • Invite Jesus into a specific past moment to heal the wound and rewrite the pattern.

    • Luke 4:18 — Jesus heals the broken and sets captives free.
  • Prophetic Declaration Over Future Moments
    • Speaking God’s promises over upcoming decisions, seasons, or events.
    • Job 22:28 — “You will decree a thing, and it will be established.”
  • Redeemed Perspective
    • Seeing time through heaven’s lens; aligning your story with God’s story.
    • Romans 12:2 — Renew the mind to discern God's will.

The Promise: Rest in the Now

When past wounds lose their power and future anxiety evaporates, you experience rest — a settled confidence that God carries the whole timeline.

Key Scriptures

  • Hebrews 4:9–11 — There remains a rest for God’s people.
  • Matthew 11:28–30 — “Come to me… and I will give you rest.”


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3/15/25

BSF fuels me for a life of ministry

Today my friend David is talking with Bill about being an Online Trainer for BSF. He's been doing a great job of assisting me over the past few years and ready to take the helm. Yesterday in our leaders meeting my friend Terry shared a miracle about his neighbor who needed a lawyer and how God provided an attorney through several promptings, he couldn't stop talking about it. I'm planning on sharing the day I received the blessing of being an OT with David when he it happens for him. I believe we should share the moments we see God at work in our lives. 

Joe and Ben, "where two or three are gathered in my name" Matthew 18:20

On Wednesday I was walking through the skyway and saw a homeless person (Joe) who looked dead, slumped over, eyes open and didn't look like he was breathing. I approached him and he woke up, said he's fine. I left him but came back because I wanted him to know he had other options, that he isn't alone. We had lunch together and he was starving but asked me if I wanted to pray. I did and we talked about Jesus, life, and addiction/mental-illness. I told him I would drive him to Adult & Teen Challenge and they would give him a bed, bring him to doctors appointments and get him new glasses (his was missing a lens). I had him convinced but he started having a schizophrenic argument with himself. He looked at the fortune cookie script and showed it to me, saying I know I should go with you but look at this... it read something like, "don't trust where you are going." 

So he asked if he could have my name and number. It just so happens I put the Teen Challenge admissions contact information in my phone, as I had been looking to give the Portland house address to Tom who shared his testimony of healing from cancer on Tuesday 3/11 prayer course. Joe had awesome penmanship as he wrote down the Teen Challenge number, address, my name (Ben from Alpha sent me). 

We walked outside so he could smoke, he wanted to part ways but hugged me and said don't forget about me. I said go to Teen Challenge and you'll see me again. I prayed to see him on Monday as I'm going to Teen Challenge to invite Alpha graduates to bring family to the Prayer Course on Tuesday's at Portland house. The last topic of Alpha is called "What about the church" and I'll share this testimony of Joe coming to church with me at that restaurant. 

Acts 2:42-46 describes the early church breaking bread as part of their fellowship: "And they continued steadfastly in the apostles’ doctrine and fellowship, in the breaking of bread, and in prayers." The early Christians came together regularly for common meals, which included the breaking of bread. Acts 2:44 refers to them having “everything in common,” and this no doubt included sharing meals together, each one receiving from the others what they needed. Verse 46 describes them breaking bread in their homes.-gotquestions

side note on Communion/Lord's supper - when Jesus said as often as you do "this" do "this" in remembrance of me. My friend Jon said "this" is fellowship over a meal. 

Now as they were eating, Jesus took bread, and after blessing it broke it and gave it to the disciples, and said, “Take, eat; this is my body.” And he took a cup, and when he had given thanks he gave it to them, saying, “Drink of it, all of you, for this is my blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many for the forgiveness of sins. - Matthew 26:26-28

I feel like I've been given new eyes to see the church as the body of Christ (Ephesians 1:22-23, 1 Corinthians 12:27, Romans 12:5, Ephesians 4:12) or more appropriate to say "a heart that understands"

Tom's Cancer healing

I first learned about Tom during our prayer call Thursday 2/27 and wrote about here.

Tom had a rare cancer that didn't show up in blood tests, so it went to stage four and he had 20 to 30 tumors in his liver. Doctors at the Mayo were talking about palliative care but later were astonished to see the cancer was 80% gone. 3 out of 4 said it was a miracle and Tom shared with TC clients and family members that it was the power of prayer that he was healed. 

Tom's scan before (white specs in liver is cancer)

Tom's scan after (white specks/cancer is almost gone).


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8/17/22

Biblical view on abortion

After Roe was overturned by the SCOTUS we had a listening session at work. Many voiced concern and fear for the future - the event was hosted by LGBTQ and Woman's groups so my part was to listen. I asked to provide the Biblical view on abortion giving the following outline. 

Many people haven’t heard the good news and assume they disagree. I’d like a chance to respectfully provide the Biblical view.

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3/28/21

Catalytic Questions to save your life

 I'm listening to Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets 5 Questions to Help You Determine Your Next Move (Andy Stanley) , the big idea is to have a plan to make better decisions. Our decisions take us down a path, impacting our quality of life. My brother and I were talking about legacy, what story do you want to tell in five years from now. He brought up a good point that setting goals and personal expectations can be hard when we don't live up to them. Leading to disappointment and anger. I've tried to make the point of Hebrews, every day is a new day. As long as it's called today, don't harden your heart. "Morning by morning new mercies I see.", "push yourself to learn new ways to begin again"

1. Integrity: Am I being honest with myself? Our heart is deceitful. Not outright lying but deceitful, I deserve this, nobody will know, I'm not hurting anybody... "You will always underestimate the impact of your absence in time and eternity." How I spend my time does matter.

2. Legacy: What story do I want to tell when this is over? Joseph's work ethic and honor even as a slave. My greatest desire is for a stranger to say to my loved ones at my funeral, "you don't know me but Ben saved my life." 

3. Conscience: Is there a tension that deserves my attention? David's opportunity to kill Saul in the cave. 

4. Maturity: What is the wise thing to do? Not right or wrong, but wise. Don't go to the edge, stay away by focusing on three points of reference. Where did I come from, where am I now, where do I want to be. Change course and do the wise thing that will get you where you want to be.

5. Relationship: What does love require of me?  The other questions have an absolute payoff, but this one may be more difficult. We may not see a benefit this side of eternity. As of this writing, I have 107 posts labeled Love. This is the paramount question in the Christian faith. 

Conclusion for me, I want to live on purpose and show by my life that I'm an honorable, caring man of God. The Lord continues to show me James 3:17-18;Col 4:5-6.

But the wisdom from above is first of all pure. It is also peace-loving, gentle at all times, and willing to yield to others. It is full of mercy and the fruit of good deeds. It shows no favoritism and is always sincere. And those who are peacemakers will plant seeds of peace and reap a harvest of righteousness.

Live wisely among those who are not believers, and make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be gracious and attractive so that you will have the right response for everyone.

Prayer: Lord, let my words be helpful to those who hear them. Let my delivery be tasteful and gentle, wholesome and pleasing. May I be the peacemaker in this world for your glory. Amen.   

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