Everything Flipped Upside Down

 Part I was about love. Part II was about the heart. This part is where it gets uncomfortable.

These four commands go against almost everything we are taught. They cost something real. They make you look weak to people who are keeping score.

Jesus taught them anyway.

9. Do Not Get Even

Matthew 5:38-39

The old rule was an eye for an eye. That rule was actually mercy.

It kept revenge from growing. If someone knocked out your tooth, you could not burn down their house. The punishment had to match the crime.

Jesus went further. Do not fight back at all. If someone slaps you on the right cheek, turn the other one too.

The world says: Do not let anyone push you around. Make them pay.

But God's Word says: Let it go. The insult does not get to control you.

This is not about letting someone hurt you or your family. It is about the small daily hits. The rude email. The cheap shot in a meeting. The relative who always has a comment.

You do not have to return fire. That is freedom.

10. Give More Than They Ask

Matthew 5:40-42

Jesus kept going, and each example got harder.

If someone sues you for your shirt, hand over your coat too. If a soldier forces you to carry his gear one mile, go two. If someone asks to borrow, do not turn away.

That second mile is the key. The first mile was the law. The second mile was a gift, and it was yours to give.

The world says: Do the minimum. Protect what is yours.

But God's Word says: Give past the line. Surprise people.

Being generous is more than money. It is time. Patience. A second chance. Credit you could have kept for yourself.

11. Love the People Who Hurt You

Matthew 5:43-45; Luke 6:35-36

This is the hardest command in the whole study.

People had been taught to love their neighbor and hate their enemy. Jesus told them to love their enemies and pray for the people who persecute them.

Then he gave the reason. That is what God is like. He sends sunshine and rain on good people and bad people alike. Luke says he is kind even to people who are ungrateful and wicked (Luke 6:35).

The world says: They do not deserve it after what they did.

But God's Word says: Neither did you, and God loved you anyway.

Start with prayer. It is very hard to pray for someone every day and still hate them. Something shifts. Usually in you first.

12. Serve. Do Not Climb.

John 13:14-15; Matthew 23:8-12

Jesus washed his friends' feet. That was a servant's job, and everyone in the room knew it.

Then he told them to do the same for each other. He said he gave them an example to follow.

In Matthew, he warned against loving titles and honor. He told them the greatest among them must be a servant. Anyone who lifts himself up will be brought low. Anyone who lowers himself will be lifted up.

The world says: Build your brand. Get the title. Be somebody.

But God's Word says: Grab a towel. God handles the honor.

Look for the job nobody wants. Do it without telling anyone. That is the pattern he showed us on his last night.

Where This Leaves Us

None of this makes sense unless you believe God is in charge of the outcome.

You can stop fighting back because God will handle justice. You can give without limits because God is your supply. You can love an enemy because God loved you first. You can serve without a title because God sees you.

Take God out of it and these commands are foolish. Put God back in and they are the only way to live free.

Try this week: Pick one person who has hurt you. Pray for them by name every day for seven days. Ask God to bless them.

Ask yourself: Am I keeping score with anyone right now? What would it take to put the scorecard down?

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The Life Inside

 The first four commands were about love. These four are about what happens inside you.

Jesus cared about the heart, not just the behavior. A person can look fine on the outside and be empty underneath. He never settled for that.

This part of the study goes under the surface.

5. You Have to Be Born Again

John 3:3-7

A respected religious leader came to Jesus at night with questions.

Nicodemus knew the Scriptures. He had position and training. Jesus told him none of that was enough. He had to be born again to see the Kingdom of God.

Nicodemus was confused. He asked how a grown man could be born a second time. Jesus explained he was talking about the Spirit, not a second physical birth.

The world says: Try harder. Clean yourself up. Be a better version of you.

But God's Word says: You need new life, not a fresh start.

This is the beginning of everything else. You cannot grow fruit on a dead tree. God gives the life first. Then growth follows.

6. Stay Close to Jesus

John 15:4-5

Jesus said he is the vine and we are the branches.

A branch does not strain to make grapes. It stays connected, and fruit shows up. Cut it off, and it dies no matter how good its intentions are.

Then Jesus said the hard part out loud. Apart from him, we can do nothing.

The world says: You have what it takes. Believe in yourself.

But God's Word says: Stay connected, and God produces the fruit.

Abiding is not complicated. It is time in his Word. It is prayer. It is coming back to him again and again during a normal day.

7. Take Sin Seriously

Matthew 5:29-30

Jesus used shocking word pictures here, and he meant to.

He talked about an eye and a hand causing someone to sin. He said it would be better to lose that part than to lose everything. We could loss our eyes, and hands but in our heart still lust.

Many have said, "He was not telling anyone to hurt themselves. He was using a strong picture to make one point. Cut off whatever keeps pulling you toward sin, even if it costs you something you like." but others say, "he's pointing to the reality that we need a new heart"

• And I will give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit in you. I will take out your stony, stubborn heart and give you a tender, responsive heart. -  Ezekiel 36:26

The world says: It is not hurting anyone. A little is fine.

But God's Word says: I will take out your stony, stubborn heart and give you a tender, responsive heart.

Heart surgery is done by someone else, it takes time on the surgeons schedule - not when you want it. Yet, Today is the day Hebrews 3:7,15,4:7 

8. Say What You Mean

Matthew 5:34-37

People in Jesus' day swore oaths to prove they were serious.

They made promises on heaven, on earth, on Jerusalem. The more important the oath sounded, the more people believed them.

Jesus told them to stop. Just let your yes be yes and your no be no.

The world says: Tell them what they want to hear. Stretch it a little.

But God's Word says: Be the kind of person whose plain word is enough.

An oath is only needed when your ordinary word cannot be trusted. Jesus set the bar higher. Be honest all the time, and you will never need to prove it.

Where This Leaves Us

These four fit together.

New birth gives you life. Abiding keeps you connected to it. Guarding your heart protects it. Honest speech shows it is real.

You cannot fake the inside for long. It always comes out in how you live and how you talk.

Try this week: Take ten minutes a day with God before you look at your phone. Ten minutes, every day, for seven days.

Ask yourself: Is there one thing I already know I need to cut off? What am I waiting for?

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Why did God give humanity over to a depraved mind? (Romans 1-3)

God gave humanity over because people knowingly preferred independence, idolatry, and unrighteousness over retaining the knowledge of God. A useful framework is:

Revelation → Rejection → Exchange → Abandonment → Depravity → Accountability → Redemption

The “depraved mind” is therefore not merely intellectual confusion. It is moral reasoning distorted by rejected worship. Paul’s answer is not simply better behavior or clearer information. Humanity needs a restored relationship with God through Christ.

Paul describes this progression:

1. God revealed Himself through creation (Romans 1:19–20).
2. Humanity suppressed that truth through unrighteousness (Romans 1:18).
3. People refused gratitude and worship (Romans 1:21).
4. They exchanged God’s glory and truth for idols and lies (Romans 1:23–25).
5. They rejected knowing God as morally undesirable (Romans 1:28).
6. God gave them over to their chosen desires and distorted thinking (Romans 1:24, 26, 28).
7. Sin spread into relationships and society (Romans 1:29–32).

Romans 1:28 states the immediate reason: “They did not see fit to acknowledge God,” so God gave them over to a depraved mind.

“Gave them over” does not mean innocent people wanted God, but God prevented them. It means people repeatedly rejected the truth they already possessed, and God judicially allowed their rebellion to govern them.

The punishment fits the offense:

• They rejected God’s rightful authority.
• God withdrew restraint and allowed their chosen autonomy.
• Their reasoning became unable to reliably approve what is morally right.
• Their corrupted thinking produced conduct “that ought not to be done.”

The wordplay in Romans 1:28 is significant: humanity did not “approve” retaining God in its knowledge, so God gave humanity over to an “unapproved” or depraved mind.

Romans 1 presents God’s wrath partly as a present consequence: God allows people to experience the mastery and consequences of what they have chosen. Romans 2 then turns toward the person judging others: the moral and religious observer commits sin too and cannot claim exemption.

Romans 3 completes the argument:

• Gentiles are guilty.
• Religious people are guilty.
• “There is no one righteous.”
• The law exposes sin but cannot justify anyone.
• God offers righteousness through faith in Jesus Christ (Romans 3:21–26).

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Love Is the Foundation

 Someone once asked Jesus to name the most important rule. He did not give a list. He gave love.

A religious expert tried to trap him. He wanted Jesus to rank the commands. Instead, Jesus named two, and then said every other command hangs on those two (Matthew 22:35-40).

That changes how we read everything else Jesus taught. His commands are not a checklist. They are love, spelled out.

1. Love God. Love People.

Matthew 22:35-40; Mark 12:28-31; Luke 10:25-28

Jesus put two commands together and would not separate them.

Love God with all your heart, soul, and mind. Then love your neighbor the way you already love yourself.

Mark tells us the teacher agreed with him. Luke tells us the lawyer answered first and Jesus said he got it right. Three Gospels, one answer.

The world says: Be a good person. Stay out of trouble. Keep score.

But God's Word says: Start with God. Love for people grows out of love for him.

You cannot love God and ignore the person next to you. You cannot love people well without loving God first. Both, or neither.

2. Love the Way Jesus Loved

John 13:34-35; John 15:12-13

Jesus called this a new command. What made it new was the measuring stick.

The old command said love your neighbor as yourself. The new one raised the bar. Love each other the way I have loved you.

He said this right after washing his friends' feet. He said it hours before he went to the cross. Then he told them the greatest love is giving up your life for a friend (John 15:13).

The world says: Love people who love you back. Keep it fair.

But God's Word says: Love costs something. Serve first. Give first.

Jesus also said this is how people would know who follows him (John 13:35). Not our arguments. Not our knowledge. Our love.

3. The Golden Rule

Matthew 7:12; Luke 6:31

Jesus took the whole law and made it simple enough for a child.

Treat other people the way you want to be treated.

Notice it is active. It does not say stop hurting people. It says go do the good thing. Speak the kind word. Make the call. Show up.

The world says: Do not do anything you would not want done to you.

But God's Word says: Do for others what you wish someone would do for you.

One is about avoiding harm. The other is about doing good. Jesus asked for the second one.

4. Love Does Not Stop at the Property Line

Luke 10:29-37

The lawyer had the right answer. Then he tried to shrink it.

He asked Jesus who counts as a neighbor. He wanted a smaller list.

Jesus told a story instead. Two religious men walked past a beaten man. A Samaritan stopped. Samaritans and Jews did not get along. He was the wrong man from the wrong group, and he was the only one who helped.

Then Jesus flipped the question. He did not ask who qualifies as a neighbor. He asked which man acted like one.

The world says: Take care of your own. There are limits.

But God's Word says: The person in front of you is your neighbor.

Where This Leaves Us

Every command that follows in this study rests here.

If a teaching of Jesus ever feels cold or heavy, we are probably reading it apart from love. Love is not one rule among many. It is the reason for all of them.

Try this week: Pick one person who is hard to love. Do one good thing for them that you would want done for you. Do not announce it. Just do it.

Ask yourself: Am I keeping rules, or am I loving people? Jesus can tell the difference, and so can they.

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Remembering the journey and responding with obedience

 “Then the nations around you that remain will know that I the Lord have rebuilt what was destroyed and have replanted what was desolate. I the Lord have spoken, and I will do it.” Ezekiel 36:36

“In all that has happened to us, you have remained righteous; you have acted faithfully, while we have acted wickedly.” (Nehemiah 9:33)

“Then those who feared the Lord talked with each other, and the Lord listened and heard... Malachi 3:16A scroll of remembrance was written in his presence concerning those who feared the Lord and honored his name.” (Malachi 3:16)

God rebuilds what we break. He does it in cities, in nations, and in hearts.

"Then the nations around you that remain will know that I the Lord have rebuilt what was destroyed and have replanted what was desolate. I the Lord have spoken, and I will do it." (Ezekiel 36:36)

Ezekiel spoke these words to people who had lost everything. Jerusalem was burned. The temple was gone. God's people lived as captives in a foreign land.

They had earned it. For hundreds of years they had turned away from God.

But God made a promise anyway. He would rebuild. He would replant. And when He did, everyone watching would know who did it.

The Wall Was Done. The Work Was Not.

Years later, God kept His word. The people came home. Under Nehemiah, they rebuilt the wall of Jerusalem in just 52 days.

You might think they would throw a party and move on. They did celebrate. But then they did something deeper.

They stopped. They gathered. They opened God's Word.

For hours they listened. Then the leaders prayed a long prayer that told their whole story. They started with Abraham. They walked through Egypt, the Red Sea, the desert, the Promised Land, the judges, the kings, and the exile.

It was not a happy story about them. It was a true story about God.

Over and over, the people failed. Over and over, God stayed faithful. Then came this line:

"In all that has happened to us, you have remained righteous; you have acted faithfully, while we have acted wickedly." (Nehemiah 9:33)

Why Remembering Matters

Remembering keeps us honest. When we look back, we see two things at once. We see our own failures. And we see God's faithfulness running through every one of them.

That is not a reason for shame. It is a reason for worship.

Think about your own journey. Where were you ten years ago? Twenty? What did God carry you through? What did He rebuild that you thought was gone for good?

We forget fast. That is why God tells His people again and again to remember. Stones were stacked by the Jordan River so children would ask, "What do these mean?" The Passover meal was eaten every year. Jesus gave us bread and the cup and said, "Do this in remembrance of me."

Remembering is not looking backward to stay there. It is looking backward so we can walk forward.

Remembering Leads to Obedience

Nehemiah's people did not stop at a prayer. Right after they remembered, they made a promise. They wrote it down. Their leaders signed it. They agreed to follow God's law, keep the Sabbath, and care for God's house.

Remembering led to action.

This is the pattern. We look back and see God's faithfulness. Then we respond with our own. Not to earn His love, but because we already have it.

Obedience that grows out of remembering is different from obedience that grows out of fear or duty. It says, "God has been so good to me. How could I not follow Him?"

God Is Listening

Now jump ahead about 100 years. Things have gone downhill again. In Malachi's day, many people said, "What's the use of serving God? It doesn't pay."

But not everyone said that.

"Then those who feared the Lord talked with each other, and the Lord listened and heard. A scroll of remembrance was written in his presence concerning those who feared the Lord and honored his name." (Malachi 3:16)

I love this verse. A small group of faithful people got together and talked about God. That is all. No big event. No crowd.

And God leaned in to listen.

He did more than listen. He had it written down. A scroll of remembrance. In the next verse, God says, "They will be my people. On the day when I act in judgment, they will be my own special treasure."

Here is the beautiful turn. We remember God's faithfulness. And God remembers ours.

What This Looks Like for Us

Remember on purpose. Keep a journal. Write down answered prayers. Tell your kids and grandkids the stories of what God has done in your family.

Remember honestly. Like Nehemiah's people, be willing to say, "God, You were faithful, and I was not." Confession is part of the story.

Respond with obedience. Ask one simple question: "In light of all God has done, what is my next step?" Then take it.

Remember together. The people in Malachi "talked with each other." Faith grows in groups. Around a table. In a Bible study. In a men's group on a weekday morning. When believers speak together about the Lord, heaven is listening.

The Bottom Line

God rebuilds what was destroyed. He replants what was desolate. He said He would, and He does.

Our part is to remember that journey and respond with obedience. Not once, but again and again.

And when we gather to talk about His goodness, we can know this for sure. God hears. God writes it down. And God calls us His treasure.

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