The first four commands were about love. These four are about what happens inside you.
Jesus cared about the heart, not just the behavior. A person can look fine on the outside and be empty underneath. He never settled for that.
This part of the study goes under the surface.
5. You Have to Be Born Again
John 3:3-7
A respected religious leader came to Jesus at night with questions.
Nicodemus knew the Scriptures. He had position and training. Jesus told him none of that was enough. He had to be born again to see the Kingdom of God.
Nicodemus was confused. He asked how a grown man could be born a second time. Jesus explained he was talking about the Spirit, not a second physical birth.
The world says: Try harder. Clean yourself up. Be a better version of you.
But God's Word says: You need new life, not a fresh start.
This is the beginning of everything else. You cannot grow fruit on a dead tree. God gives the life first. Then growth follows.
6. Stay Close to Jesus
John 15:4-5
Jesus said he is the vine and we are the branches.
A branch does not strain to make grapes. It stays connected, and fruit shows up. Cut it off, and it dies no matter how good its intentions are.
Then Jesus said the hard part out loud. Apart from him, we can do nothing.
The world says: You have what it takes. Believe in yourself.
But God's Word says: Stay connected, and God produces the fruit.
Abiding is not complicated. It is time in his Word. It is prayer. It is coming back to him again and again during a normal day.
7. Take Sin Seriously
Matthew 5:29-30
Jesus used shocking word pictures here, and he meant to.
He talked about an eye and a hand causing someone to sin. He said it would be better to lose that part than to lose everything. We could loss our eyes, and hands but in our heart still lust.
Many have said, "He was not telling anyone to hurt themselves. He was using a strong picture to make one point. Cut off whatever keeps pulling you toward sin, even if it costs you something you like." but others say, "he's pointing to the reality that we need a new heart"
- And I will give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit in you. I will take out your stony, stubborn heart and give you a tender, responsive heart. - Ezekiel 36:26
The world says: It is not hurting anyone. A little is fine.
But God's Word says: I will take out your stony, stubborn heart and give you a tender, responsive heart.
Heart surgery is done by someone else, it takes time on the surgeons schedule - not when you want it. Yet, Today is the day Hebrews 3:7,15,4:7
8. Say What You Mean
Matthew 5:34-37
People in Jesus' day swore oaths to prove they were serious.
They made promises on heaven, on earth, on Jerusalem. The more important the oath sounded, the more people believed them.
Jesus told them to stop. Just let your yes be yes and your no be no.
The world says: Tell them what they want to hear. Stretch it a little.
But God's Word says: Be the kind of person whose plain word is enough.
An oath is only needed when your ordinary word cannot be trusted. Jesus set the bar higher. Be honest all the time, and you will never need to prove it.
Where This Leaves Us
These four fit together.
New birth gives you life. Abiding keeps you connected to it. Guarding your heart protects it. Honest speech shows it is real.
You cannot fake the inside for long. It always comes out in how you live and how you talk.
Try this week: Take ten minutes a day with God before you look at your phone. Ten minutes, every day, for seven days.
Ask yourself: Is there one thing I already know I need to cut off? What am I waiting for?