Introduction: Two Kinds of Men in the Same Room
There is a version of Jesus that desperate men will accept without much argument. When the diagnosis comes back wrong, when the marriage is hanging by a thread, when the money runs out and the options disappear — men who have never given God a second thought will suddenly get very interested in a Savior. Desperation has a way of dissolving pride. And the grace of God is so vast that He meets men there, in that foxhole moment, and it is real and it is good.
But there is another version of Jesus that those same men will quietly negotiate around once the crisis passes. The Jesus who says follow me — daily, specifically, at personal cost — the Jesus who is not just rescue but Lord, who has actual claims on your schedule, your money, your relationships, your tongue, your secret life. That Jesus gets a much cooler reception. And what you get in far too many churches, and far too many men's gatherings, is a room full of people who have accepted the first Jesus while carefully managing their distance from the second.
Look around any church honestly and you will find two kinds of people sitting in the same rows, singing the same songs.
There are men who have genuinely come under the Lordship of Jesus Christ. They are not perfect — not even close — but they have handed the keys over. They pick up their cross daily, not as a poetic expression but as an actual discipline of dying to themselves before they walk out the door. Luke 9:23 is not a verse on their wall; it is a description of how Tuesday actually works. They love God with increasing wholeness. They love others, including people who have wronged them, with a love that surprises even themselves. They forgive freely — not because it is easy, but because they understand what they themselves have been forgiven. And they are actively making disciples, reproducing in others what God has worked in them, because that is what Jesus told them to do and they have decided He meant it.
And then there are men who are in the building for other reasons. Some are appeasing a spouse. Some are carrying guilt they have never fully surrendered and church attendance feels like partial payment. Some are maintaining a reputation, a family tradition, a social network. And then there is a third category that is easy to miss and deserves real grace — men who are genuinely striving toward God, who sense something is true and want it to be true for them, but who have never fully crossed the line of surrender. They are circling the Lordship of Jesus like a man standing outside a door he knows he needs to open. They believe about Jesus. They have not yet trusted in Him — not with the parts of their life that actually cost something.
The Lord's requirements are not complicated, though they are costly. Love God with everything you have. Love others — including, specifically, your enemies (Matthew 5:44). Forgive freely, as you have been forgiven (Ephesians 4:32). And make disciples — go, baptize, teach — reproducing the life of Christ in the people around you (Matthew 28:19–20). That is the shape of a life under the Lordship of Jesus. Not sinless, but surrendered. Not without struggle, but oriented toward the King.
And here is how you know, in any given moment, whether you are currently living under that Lordship: you know the voice. It is quiet. It does not shout. It does not condemn and bury you. It simply says — you know better. That is the Holy Spirit, the Paraclete who stands alongside you (John 14:16), the still small voice that Elijah heard after the wind and the earthquake and the fire had all passed (1 Kings 19:12). That gentle correction is not your enemy. It is the mechanism of your freedom. When you listen to it, sin loses its grip. Your yes becomes yes and your no becomes no (Matthew 5:37), which means you become a man whose word is worth something, whose integrity is not situational, whose life begins to match his confession.
The extraordinary truth that this text will press us toward is this: today is still the day of salvation (2 Corinthians 6:2). The door has not closed. The risen Jesus — not a memory, not a historical figure, but a living, reigning, interceding King — is at this moment making intercession for you before the Father (Romans 8:34, Hebrews 7:25). He is not finished with you. He is not embarrassed by where you've been. He is not waiting for you to clean yourself up before He engages. He is already leaning toward you.
So before we open Zechariah, let us come before Him as we actually are.
Lord, we worship You in Spirit and in Truth — not in the performance of religion, not behind the mask of what we want others to think, but as we actually are before You right now. You see the true believer and the striving man and the man who has been in a pew for years and never fully handed the keys over. You see all of us, and You are still interceding. Make us holy. Give us ears that truly hear, eyes that truly see, and hearts that understand — that we might turn to You fully and be healed from our hypocrisy, freed from sin's bondage, and walk through Your gates with praise instead of shame. We do not come because we have earned it. We come because You are good and today is still the day. Amen.
Now — into the book of Zechariah, where the rejected Shepherd is waiting to show us exactly who He is and what He has secured for men who will receive Him as both Savior and Lord.
Truth 1: God Guarantees That Good Wins
Anchor Text: Zechariah 9:9–17
The Bigger Biblical Story
Zechariah 9:9 is one of the most precise messianic prophecies in the entire Old Testament — a humble king riding a donkey, bringing salvation. Matthew 21:5 and John 12:15 both cite it directly at the Triumphal Entry, which means the disciples were standing inside a fulfillment they couldn't yet fully see. That's exactly where men live most of the time — inside a story whose ending they can't yet read.
The surrounding verses (9:13–17) use military imagery: God will make Judah His bow, Ephraim His arrow. He will "wield" His people like a warrior's sword. The point is not that we fight and win, but that He fights and we are the instrument in His hand. This is crucial for men who are tempted to equate God's guaranteed victory with their personal comfort or immediate vindication.
Supporting Texts:
Romans 8:31–39 — Paul's great cascade of questions. "If God is for us, who can be against us?" This is not optimism. It is a legal declaration grounded in the resurrection. The list of things that cannot separate us from God's love — tribulation, distress, persecution, famine, nakedness, danger, sword — reads like a catalog of male failure points. Things that make men feel like God must have moved on. Paul's answer: none of it moves Him.
Revelation 19:11–16 — The returning King has a name written on His robe and thigh: King of Kings and Lord of Lords. He judges and makes war in righteousness. This is Zechariah 9's warrior-king at full resolution. The humility of the donkey and the thunder of the white horse are the same Person. Men need both pictures. The first tells you He is approachable. The second tells you He is not manageable.
2 Thessalonians 1:6–10 — God considers it just to repay affliction with affliction to those who afflict you. That word "just" is load-bearing. Justice is not God losing His temper. It is God keeping His character. Every injustice you have swallowed, every time a ruthless person advanced while you held the line — God has an accounting. This does not license bitterness in you; it releases you from carrying the burden of making things right yourself.
Psalm 37:1–2, 7–11 — "Do not fret because of evildoers... for they will wither quickly like the grass." David is not being naive. He wrote this while being hunted. His instruction — do not fret, trust, delight, commit, be still, wait — is a sequence. It is not passive. It is active trust, which is the hardest kind.
Isaiah 46:10 — "My purpose will stand, and I will do all that I please." God's sovereignty is not a theological abstraction for difficult moments. It is the ground men stand on when the world's ruthlessness seems to be winning. His purpose does not bend to opposition.
Deepened Application
The question "How does God's guaranteed victory steady you today?" is worth pressing further. Steadiness is not the same as numbness. Men often confuse stoicism with faith. Biblical steadiness is engaged — you see the injustice, you feel the weight of it, and you hold your position anyway because you know who holds the outcome.
The second question — Where are you living like sin still owns you? — connects directly to Romans 6:11–14. Paul commands men to "consider yourselves dead to sin." The word consider (Greek: logizomai) is an accounting term. You are to reckon it as a settled fact on the ledger, not an aspiration you work toward. Most men live in the gap between what is legally true and what they functionally believe. That gap is where the enemy operates.
Truth 2: God Alone Is the Comforter
Anchor Text: Zechariah 10:1–2
The Bigger Biblical Story
Zechariah 10:1 instructs Israel to ask God for rain in its season — not to consult the teraphim (household idols) or diviners who "speak lies" and "comfort in vain." The contrast is sharp: false comforters are active and available, but they deliver nothing real. The word translated "comfort" here (Hebrew: nacham) is the same root used for the comfort God brings in Isaiah 40:1 — "Comfort, comfort my people." The idols offer a counterfeit of something real. That is always how substitutes work. They do not invent a new need; they hijack one God designed.
This is the oldest male temptation in the book. After the Fall, Adam didn't run toward God — he hid (Genesis 3:8–10). Men have been perfecting the art of hiding ever since, just with more sophisticated cover.
Supporting Texts:
John 14:16–18, 26 — Jesus promises the Paraclete — literally "one called alongside." This is the Holy Spirit, and the word implies proximity to distress. A paraclete was someone who stood beside you in court when you were on trial. Jesus doesn't send a set of instructions when you're under pressure. He sends a Person who comes to you in the pressure. Verse 18: "I will not leave you as orphans." Orphan-thinking — the belief that you are fundamentally alone and must fend for yourself — is the root of most male self-medication.
Isaiah 40:28–31 — God does not grow tired. He gives strength to the exhausted. The promise of "mounting up with wings like eagles" is usually quoted at graduation ceremonies, but it sits in a context of profound national desolation. Isaiah is writing to people who have concluded God has forgotten them (v. 27). The comfort here is not inspirational — it is corrective. You have misread the situation. God is not tired. God is not distracted. He "does not faint or grow weary."
2 Corinthians 1:3–5 — God is "the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction." The transfer dynamic here is critical for men. You are not just a recipient of comfort; you are a conduit. The comfort you receive qualifies you. Men who have never allowed God to actually comfort them have nothing to give. They can manage, strategize, fix — but they cannot comfort. And the men around them are starving for someone who can.
Psalm 34:18 — "The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit." Note what God does not do here: He does not demand that the broken man pull himself together before approaching. This verse runs counter to every performance-based instinct men carry. Brokenness is not disqualifying. It is the address where God shows up.
Philippians 4:6–7 — The "peace that surpasses understanding" follows a command: "in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God." The comfort is not automatic; it is received through the act of actually bringing your need to God. Many men pray about their problems to God the way they might dictate a memo — efficiently and from a distance. Paul is describing something more vulnerable than that.
Matthew 11:28–30 — "Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." Jesus uses the word anapauō — rest that involves stopping, settling, recovering. He is not offering a 10-minute break. He is offering a reorientation of the whole self around His yoke. The men around you who look the most put-together are often laboring the hardest under a burden they have never brought to Christ because they were never told they could.
Deepened Application
The diagnostic question — Where have cheap comforts let you down? — is worth sitting in honestly. The pattern is almost always the same: the substitute works at first, then requires more volume to produce the same effect, then starts producing diminishing returns, then shame, then more of the substitute. That is the architecture of every counterfeit comfort. It has no floor.
The forward question — What does it look like to seek God's comfort first when pressure rises? — is about building a reflex before the crisis. Psalm 119:11 says David stored up God's word so that he would not sin when temptation came, not if it came. Men need a pre-built pathway to God's comfort. That is what spiritual discipline actually is — not performance, but pathway construction.
Truth 3: You Are Priceless to the Lord
Anchor Text: Zechariah 11:12–13
The Bigger Biblical Story: Lord Jesus Christ: Risen, Reigning, Returning The Doctrine of God the Son
Zechariah 11:12–13 is one of the most sobering passages in all of prophecy. The good Shepherd asks for His wages, and they weigh out thirty pieces of silver — the price of a gored slave (Exodus 21:32). The Lord calls it "the lordly price at which I was priced by them." The sarcasm is devastating. The one who tended the flock was valued at the minimum legal indemnity for damaged property. Matthew 27:9–10 applies this directly to Judas's betrayal price.
Here is the irony the passage forces you to sit in: the God who owns "the cattle on a thousand hills" (Psalm 50:10), who measures the oceans in the hollow of His hand (Isaiah 40:12), allowed Himself to be assigned a commodity price. Not because that was His value, but because He was willing to enter the world's broken economy of worth in order to redeem men out of it.
Supporting Texts:
1 Peter 1:18–19 — "You were ransomed from the futile ways inherited from your forefathers, not with perishable things such as silver or gold, but with the precious blood of Christ, like that of a lamb without blemish or spot." Peter is making a direct economic argument. Silver and gold — the currencies men spend their lives chasing to establish their worth — are explicitly insufficient as ransom. Only one currency was valuable enough. That currency was the life of God's Son. Your valuation was set at Calvary, not at your performance review.
Romans 5:6–8 — "While we were still weak... while we were still sinners, Christ died for us." The timing here is everything. This was not a reward for potential. God did not see what you might become and decide you were worth it. He moved toward you at your worst. That inverts every meritocratic system men live inside. You did not earn this valuation; you received it.
Ephesians 1:3–6 — You were chosen "before the foundation of the world." This is pre-market. Before there was a performance to evaluate, before there was a résumé to review, before there was a track record of any kind — God set His love on you. Men who are defined by output live in constant anxiety because output is always temporary. Ephesians 1 places your identity outside the economy of performance entirely.
Luke 15:3–7 — The shepherd leaves ninety-nine to find one. The math makes no economic sense. That is the point. God's pursuit of you is not rational by market logic. You are not valuable because of your contribution to the aggregate. You are valuable because He says you are, and He proved it by the cost He was willing to pay.
Galatians 2:20 — "The Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me." Paul makes it personal and singular. Not "who loved us" in this moment, though that is also true. Me. Men often accept the corporate version of the gospel — God loves the world — while quietly suspecting the personal version — God loves me specifically — might be a stretch given what He knows. Paul refuses that escape.
Isaiah 43:1–4 — "I have called you by name, you are mine... you are precious in my eyes, and honored, and I love you." This is spoken to Israel in exile — people who had every objective reason to conclude God was done with them. The declaration of preciousness comes into the disqualifying circumstances, not after they've been resolved. God does not say "once you get your act together, you'll be precious to me." He says it over the rubble.
1 John 3:1 — "See what kind of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God; and so we are." John tells you to see it — to actually look at it and register what it means. The word for "kind" here (potapēn) carries the sense of "from what country" — what origin is this love from? It is not native to this world. Its source is outside the system entirely.
Deepened Application
The first application question — Have you received Christ's gift? — is the hinge everything else turns on. A man can intellectually affirm that Jesus paid for sin without ever personally laying down his self-made identity and receiving what was purchased for him. Receiving requires surrender, and surrender feels like loss to men who have built their entire sense of worth on what they produce and control.
The second question — How would your decisions change if you lived from your God-given worth instead of trying to earn it? — touches the deepest behavioral patterns men carry. Men who are earning their worth are fundamentally reactive. They cannot say no to things that threaten their standing. They cannot be honest about failure. They cannot rest without guilt. Men who are living from worth — who have received the eternal valuation set at the cross — have a freedom in their decision-making that looks inexplicable to the world. They can absorb loss. They can absorb criticism. They can be honest about weakness because their identity does not depend on the outcome.
This is what Zechariah's rejected Shepherd ultimately offers: not thirty pieces of silver, but the full weight of eternal worth, freely given to those who will receive what the world was foolish enough to discard.
The thread across all three truths: the world's economy of power, comfort, and worth is bankrupt. The rejected Shepherd — who rode in on a donkey, was priced at a slave's ransom, and rose from the dead anyway — has established a completely different economy. Men who live inside that economy are genuinely free.
