Pointing out flaws or keeping it to ourselves (Acts 20:10-30)

[you know] how I did not shrink back in fear from telling you anything that was for your benefit, or from teaching you in public meetings, and from house to house, solemnly [and wholeheartedly] testifying to both Jews and Greeks, urging them to turn in repentance to God and [to have] faith in our Lord Jesus Christ [for salvation]. And now, compelled by the Spirit and obligated by my convictions, I am going to Jerusalem, not knowing what will happen to me there, except that the Holy Spirit solemnly [and emphatically] affirms to me in city after city that imprisonment and suffering await me. But I do not consider my life as something of value or dear to me, so that I may [with joy] finish my course and the ministry which I received from the Lord Jesus, to testify faithfully of the good news of God’s [precious, undeserved] grace [which makes us free of the guilt of sin and grants us eternal life].

“And now, listen carefully: I know that none of you, among whom I went about preaching the kingdom, will see me again. For that reason I testify to you on this [our parting] day that I am innocent of the blood of all people. For I did not shrink from declaring to you the whole purpose and plan of God. Take care and be on guard for yourselves and for the whole flock over which the Holy Spirit has appointed you as overseers, to shepherd (tend, feed, guide) the church of God which He bought with His own blood. I know that after I am gone, [false teachers like] ferocious wolves will come in among you, not sparing the flock; even from among your own selves men will arise, speaking perverse and distorted things, to draw away the disciples after themselves [as their followers]. - Acts 20:10-30 AMP

I enjoyed our church series on Acts this summer, ending with the Apostle Paul's long farewell. My paster closed the series with a reference to a quote by Spurgeon regarding the church: "The church is not perfect, but woe to the man who finds pleasure in pointing out her imperfections" (30:50 - 30:59). This quote relates to the passage in Acts 20:28, which describes the church as being obtained by Christ with his own blood.

The Bible does not teach, "Never point out faults in a church." Instead, it holds two principles in tension. Believers should avoid a critical, self-righteous spirit, but they are also called to lovingly confront sin, protect sound doctrine, and help restore one another. 

Verses that caution against a fault-finding attitude include:

• Matthew 7:1-5: "Do not judge, or you too will be judged." Jesus is condemning hypocritical judgment. He continues by telling us to remove the plank from our own eye first, "then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye."
• Romans 14:10-13: Paul warns believers not to judge one another over disputable matters.
• James 4:11-12: "Do not speak evil against one another." James warns against slander and assuming God's role as Judge.

Verses that instruct believers to address problems in the church include:

• Matthew 18:15-17: "If your brother sins, go and point out their fault, just between the two of you." This is Jesus' prescribed process for confronting sin privately before involving others.
• Galatians 6:1: "If someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently."
• Ephesians 5:11: "Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them."
• 1 Corinthians 5:1-13: Paul rebukes the church for tolerating open, unrepentant sin. He asks, "Is it not those inside the church whom you are to judge?"
• Titus 1:13 and 2:15: Church leaders are instructed to rebuke false teaching and sin.
• 1 Timothy 5:19-20: Elders who persist in sin are to be rebuked publicly after proper evidence is established.
• 2 Timothy 4:2: "Preach the word... correct, rebuke and encourage, with great patience and careful instruction."

The New Testament also records Jesus correcting churches directly. In Revelation chapters 2 and 3, Jesus commends churches for what they are doing well, but also identifies their faults and calls them to repent.

Taken together, the biblical pattern is:

• Do not be hypocritical, harsh, or divisive.
• Examine yourself first.
• Address genuine sin and doctrinal error.
• Confront privately when possible.
• Seek restoration rather than condemnation.
• Protect the purity and health of the church when serious sin or false teaching persists.

A helpful summary is that the Bible forbids a judgmental spirit, but it commands loving, truthful correction when it is motivated by restoration and faithfulness to Christ.